Sunday, 19 June 2011

Father's Day

Farher's Day like Mother's Day is celebrated in all 6 continents and varied timezones from eastern,pacific,Atlantic,Gmt,Utc to Central African Times.Father's day like mother's day has varied diverse season's of celebration per calendar year and month as there is the uK,US,French,Spanish and other nationalities days.It is a day and a season to celebrate all fathers and the role and status of fatherhood as in parenthood in our modern complex and complicated world of ours that we inhabit.So it is too men,males,guys,dudes,uncles,nephews,grandads,granduncles,brothers,fathers and all male species and son's of Adam as Mother's day is to the daughter's of Eve.
So it is a day to appreciate all men,males in their family,public and private lives a day for a cause of celebration buy gift's,exchange card's go on shopping spree children,wives,partners take their father for outing as a form of thank you gratitude and appreciation.
For fatherhood is not perfect,can be imperfect but has to be competent ,and not incompetent,Father's have to create an enabling environment for biological or adopted or step-children to be part of them as a tribe without fear or favour.
God is the only perfect father man is just trying to play a role and position as in status quo there is an ideal and convenient father as in role model.Father's day is not huge as mother's day as the female population is larger and bigger than the male one and women have all the attention due to some factors of men being incapable,incompetent,inefficient,ineffective and not playing role assigned as head of the family.So in modern relationships many women play the role of Dad and Mum for a lifetime,and has broken the chain of nuclear or extended family structure.Men will have to be responsible,be caring,sharing and loving and the female partners should help and cooperate in mutual understanding and consent in developing a proper family unit and structure and not create a lost childhood and generation for the children of tomorrow that creates outcast,exclusions,and opens a whole mix of a social can of worms that destroys norms and tenets of a society in knife and gun crimes,lawlessness and destroys social cohesion.Men as fathers play your part to the best of your ability and capability before God and your fellow men and women assist as in partnership not in auxilliary roles and all will be well.Happy Fathers Day.Bless.

2 comments:

  1. As a male myself i celebrated Father's day in London sent and received wishes from fellow males and female friends on social media sites of Facebook and Twitter.Father's let us play our part and the women must also play their part because it takes 2 to tango and create an ideal enabling environment for the children.Bless

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